Monday, March 29, 2010

dresses & skirts

I was at the park yesterday and I noticed a group of ladies jogging in dresses & skirts. Not only did the length of their dresses constrict the length of their strides, but it just looked uncomfortable. This brought back some old memories. Growing up as a preacher's daughter, everything my sisters and I did was restricted and over analyzed. Every year, my dad seemed to get stricter and stricter with us. Our wardrobes consisted of dresses & skirts only. Anything above the knee was literally an abomination. One day in Jr. High, one of my friends asked me why I only wore dresses & skirts. I didn't have a logical explanation besides, just because that's what I'm told to do. This was my state of rebellion. In reality, I just wanted to express myself openly. At first I would change clothes at school, then change back before I got back home. This got boring really fast. So I decided to beat my dad at his own game. I asked where in the bible does it say that I have to wear a long dress & skirt everyday? He started talking about purity and such. But who says that other clothing isn't pure? Obviously there are different types of styles in clothing and being conservative isn't limited to dresses & skirts. Trying to throw the bible in there, it does say that women shouldn't wear men's clothing but women's pants aren't the same as men's pants. That being said, I wonder what those women at the park would say if I asked why they wear dresses & skirts? I'm not being judgemental, but I don't think anyone should have control over somebody enough to direct what clothing is appropriate or not.

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